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DECIDES TO BE THE CHOSEN ONE Could you have imagined that a single mother who had no job, but depends on welfare to take care of her daughter would become a multimillionaire in less than five years time. That is the story of the ALL-TIME BEST-SELLING BOOK SERIES author J.K. Rowling. This woman was still surviving on welfare when she submitted the manuscript for her first book Harry Potter. She had it rough to the point of attempting suicide, but she thought to her self, it wasn't my fault that negative things of life befalls her, but it will be her fault if she do not take responsibility to get the best out of it.  We often assume that successful people got to where they are because they went to the right school or knew the right person or had the right genetics or stumbled into the right job at the right time. It’s easier to think about success this way because then you can say that these people were lucky to have certain advantages and you weren’t, and that’s what made the diffe...

As children, we are raised to believe that anything is possible. But this belief seems to fade once the pressure of 'real life' kicks in and there are bills to be paid, career choices to be made, and social expectations to be met. When your childhood dreams are put on the back-burner for so long, how can you recreate yourself and start down the path to doing the impossible.  Invest in your identity:   Your identity is a fluid illusion yet it still drives your actions. You are whoever you think you are. With that said, you can work with this illusion to direct your life in the direction you want to go. Structure your experiences around all the facets of your fascinations. Follow up on places, people, and interests that speak directly to your inner-self. Embrace your passions. Do your research. Figure out how the specific fields that interest you developed. Who were the key players responsible for making things happen? What is their approach? What cities/places ...

Rule #1 Love everything and everyone in your life and neighborhood : Be caring kind don't listen to the negative comments others make. Help your community so you can feel happy about your self.It can be in the form of keeping your community clean and encouraging others to do so or by helping an ailing person in your neighbourhood feel better. You can also gather everyone to celebrate certain occasions together. It always turns out to be fun. Rule #2 Live it to the max and do every thing you want to : Ever wanted to go bush hunting, go ahead. Make a list of 50 things you want to do. Life is full of adventures , try hard never give up. Whenever you get a chance to try out something new never miss it.It may also include things you may think are boring but may not necessarily be that way. Rule #3 Stay fit and healthy exercise for at least an hour a day : When you are healthy your happy, keep working out never stop working out. Surveys show that people who are...